Wednesday, February 13, 2008

spontaneous me

i think it’s safe to say that i don’t consider myself a spontaneous person, though i can be extremely flexible. the bones of an event, outing, or activity are best laid in advance; carefully planned and considered, contingencies coordinated. i find that thoughtful preparation allows me to be more flexible when the time comes to execute. a perfect example would be my travel style.

deb will attest to the fact that virtually every possible detail has been researched in advance of one of our trips. train schedules and hours of operation, costs and ‘little known’ tips, metro maps, weather, electricity, currency, etc. etc. i’ll put together an itinerary of sorts, which will allow us to meet our objectives in the most efficient manner. sights and activities are usually categorized by ‘must see’, ‘would like to see’, ‘might see’, i do all this so that when i arrive, i can feel safe in the knowledge i have, and safer in deviating from it. after all, the details of life cannot be counted on to meet expectations. who knows when the most divine creperie might pop up in your path, or when a cemetery will be unexpectedly closed for renovations (i’m still not quite sure what that means), or how severely getting a flat on your rental car will impact the drive time between cork and dublin.

in the moment itself, i am flexible and cool. changes are acceptable, and often yield a better outcome than planning could have. but the planning is still important for my sanity.

every once in a blue moon, however, an opportunity arises that is immediate (or nearly so). and every once in awhile i manage not to talk myself out of it with logic (ie “i have so much to do”, or “i don’t know what to wear”). i have found that in all of these cases, i have been rewarded for setting aside my nature, with a fun and worthwhile experience.

last weekend is no exception.
scott, jennifer, florin, me, and cliff at magic mountain

on friday night i got an email invitation for magic mountain on saturday. the invite came from a guy i had initially met online, and then met in person about a month ago. though he was based in idaho when we began talking, he has since moved to arizona and was in my neck of the woods with his friend scott, visiting his (scott's) sister.

normally, the late notice would have been enough reason to decline, but the weekend weather forecast called for being outdoors, and i do love roller coasters. i was hesitant since i’d not spent much time with cliff or scott in person, and didn’t know anyone else in the group. but i decided that worst case scenario, if i wasn’t having any fun, i could leave. so i accepted the invitation and met the group at the amusement park the next morning. the ‘group’ consisted of cliff, scott, scott’s sister jennifer, and jennifer’s co-worker/”friend” florin.

i could not have begun to predict how much fun we would have. first and foremost, the group dynamic was about as perfect as it gets. on top of that, this particular six flags has some flippin’ awesome rides (more on this in a moment). the park wasn’t remotely crowded and the weather was amazing. all those ingredients made for an absolutely delicious day.

the best ride at the park, hands down, is a ride called ‘tatsu’. tatsu (for those familiar with kings dominion) looks, at first glance, like ‘the volcano’. four chairs to a row, harness, dangling feet. but what makes it different is that before the ride begins, the rows/seats are hydraulically lifted upwards leaving the rider parallel to the ground. the entire ride is spent in this position (with the exception of one flippy point), and is most certainly the closest thing to superman type flying i’ve ever experienced. as you can imagine, this is by far the most popular ride. we went on it three times (as well as visiting other big coasters more than once), which just gives you an idea of the short lines. it’s safe to say that this is the best coaster i’ve ever been on. i stole the vid below from youtube...should give you a pretty good idea.



aside from tatsu, there were several others that were nearly as good. the riddler—the stand-up coaster—didn’t bang my head like shockwave, and was, as a result, extremely enjoyable! batman, goliath, viper, etc. were all a blast as well.

given how ‘unplanned’ this adventure was, and how many unknown factors were in play, i’m still a bit shocked that it was sooo much fun! i enjoyed spending more time with cliff and scott, and getting to know jennifer and florin (who looks eerily like sean penn)as evidenced by the photos. of which, there are many (thanks to the compilation of mine, jennifer's, scott's, and cliff's).

we finished off the day with a delicious dinner at pf chang's and i headed home to my air mattress.

having had such a good time on saturday, i got a message from cliff on sunday morning asking if i wanted to come spend the day with the group (sans florin) in long beach. i couldn’t refuse and made my way north.

i met up with cliff, scott, and jennifer at her place, and we headed down to the beach. once there, we rented a surrey, which is basically a four person buggy bicycle thing. we thought this would be a leisurely way to enjoy the company and the weather. though we did both, it became clear very early on that we should have gone another route. peddling the thing was the best workout i’ve had in a very very long time. it didn’t help that we started the journey with the brake on, or finished it with a broken peddle. 6 miles on a bicycle wouldn’t normally be too taxing, but in this case, we were spent.

the doom buggy

there were a couple of near off-road adventures, a couple of footraces (as in, we tried to beat a jogger—unsuccessfully!!), and a couple of photo and pedal-fixing stops along the way, and all in all, i’d consider it quite the bonding experience:)














after returning our doom-buggy, we decided it was time to eat, and enjoyed some bbq (some enjoyed it more than others):


before heading back to jennifer’s to hang out.

it was a completely unexpected and absolutely phenomenal weekend spent in the company of some really fun, really great people.

who said i wasn’t spontaneous?! ;)

to check out the rest of the pics, click here and here.

Friday, February 08, 2008

sast presents: friday

me and cal ripken

i'm mostly settled in to the new place, though we (me and the fam) were all too sick to move the bed last weekend, so it's mattress city for the moment.

the conference team (or a good chunk of them anyway)

my commute to work is short. my commute to church, shorter. my commute to the beach, even shorter.

hard at work

on a total whim, and as a result of having an extra 'holiday' and an airline ticket that must be used, i'm going to utah next weekend. for no good reason other than the travel time is decent, and i know people:)

shocking evidence that it is actually possible to take a decent photo without holding
the camera a foot above one's head to eliminate the double-chin factor

it's a very small mormon world. between the co-workers, the roommates, and the random others, the connections never end.

that cute lw (see above) is co-hosting a valentine's day party with ck and hb.

they totally rocked the invite (see below)




here ends our presentation of short attention span theater. in the upcoming days, i hope for more installments (with house photos!)

Friday, February 01, 2008

one of those weeks...

...that you need a month to recover from.

first, let me say that the world got knocked off it's kilter. in the span of 7 days the following deaths have occurred (in no particular order): president hinckley, brad renfro, heath ledger, a friends mother (early 50s), a former co-workers husband (mid-30s), a family friends brother (not positive of the age, but relatively young). not to mention the other family friend, who, late sunday morning fell and broke her ankle, only to return from the hospital, and a short time later, fall again, and break her wrist, and the other family friend who had to have emergency surgery related to a suspected cyst (i believe). world=off kilter.

and before i go on, i should say that my heart goes out to those who have recently been victims of the off kilterness.

as far as the other craziness of the last week, it started with my first event for the new company. and also the biggest event they do. i recognize that i am my own worst critic, but to say that i was disappointed would be an understatement. lots of things i could have and should have done better, and i was more exhausted than i ever remember being. of course, this could have been due to the fact that i was coming down with a mystery illness that would put me in bed for the majority of the week. i'm convinced it's a serious case of bronchitis (i'm overly prone), but 7 year old drew has had identical symptoms and was diagnosed as having a virus. i've been self-medicating with leftover amoxicillin anyway...just in case.

fortunately, my self-criticism of event performance was not mirrored my superiors, and i have been rewarded generously and unexpectedly for a 'job well-done.' yay for my company! my employment there has already been a blessing in so many ways.

and of course, i got to meet cal ripken. those who know how paranoid i am about my height will appreciate this little story...

having had exposure to celebrities before, and more specifically having had photos taken with them, i am very self-conscious about my stature (which in heels, becomes 6'0). in one case i even ducked down for the photo, and the singer was a good sport and stood on his tiptoes.

imagine how happy i was to learn that cal stood at 6'4" and that my concerns would be of no consequence. now...imagine my surprise to find that when i approached him, he paused, looked me in the eye, and then downwards, and commented, 'oh! heels!'

it was not a derogatory comment, yet the fact that he consciously noted my height does not go far in helping me alleviate my issues.

that being said, the photo turned out quite nicely, and i'd be happy to share it...as soon as i get the digital version. for the moment, i have only a 4X6 print, and taking photos of photos just doesn't quite work. however, i have included a shot of most of the onsite staff cheesing it up at registration.

day 3... in heels for 14-18 hour days, and less than 5 hours sleep per night. yeah. that's how we roll.

after completing the event and packing up the materials on sunday morning, i made it home around 11am. i did not leave my bed until the following morning, and i think i was awake for a total of two hours during that time.

i arrived at work on monday morning, planning only to stay for an hour or so to take care of a couple of things, and as i walked in, my boss said simply, 'you look awful. don't log in. go home.'

so i did. i made a more successful attempt at work on tuesday, though only lasted about half a day, which put me out of commission on wednesday. yesterday and today were also short days.

i must admit that i haven't been really sick in some time, so i don't feel that i can complain too much. what i am annoyed with, is the timing....during/after the 'big event', and in the midst of moving preparation. my mind is completely foggy and my body sore and tired, yet, the moving man cometh. or rather...mick is leaving town on sunday, and i need his help, and his truck to move the mattress the fam has so generously bequeathed to me.

by tomorrow night, i hope to be snuggly tucked in in my new home, watching netflix on my new tv (which, as it turns out, has become one more example of how 'frugal' i've become since moving here). frugal is the nice word for cheap. but i digress. to what i'm not sure. but i'm tired, and probably rambling, and when i have my wits about me, may be so disgusted with this post that i just delete it.

yesterday i used the completely wrong word in an email..and it was an embarrassing slip. it took me well over two hours to come up with the right word. i really hate that. and today, when i went to ikea, i'm not exactly sure if i got the right color of the thing i got, because it didn't occur to me to check. and now it's in the new house, and i'm in the old house, and i won't know until tomorrow. and the boxes are so heavy that even if i got the wrong color, i don't know if i can bear to take them back.

but i paid less than 3.00/gal for gas. did i mention that?

oh happy day!

i paid less than 3.00/gal for gas today.

ooooh. oooh. oooh. AND, i went to ikea.