Thursday, February 05, 2009

more on 31 dates...

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Date: February 5, 2009 11:00:54 AM PST
Subject: ""31 Dates in 31 Days" Fan Club" sent you a message on Facebook...
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Tamara sent a message to the members of "31 Dates in 31 Days" Fan Club.

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Subject: {media stuff}

hello fellow daters!
can you believe this adventure is nearing its final week? that's simply amazing to me. thank you so much for helping me keep motivated and excited about it!

okay, so i wanted to let you know that this is getting a bit of media attention. some kind of blurb will appear in Sunday's NY Post and i'll appear very briefly tomorrow morning on Good Morning America at 8:30.

THANK YOU for recommending some more men who are willing and excited to participate. i think you'll be happy to learn about the final batch of bachelors! they are all so great!!!

happy dating! and take time to enjoy every 31st minute today!
:)
tamara
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Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

good news tues

good news item #1: a big 'welcome to the world, kid' goes out to the newest addition in the burk family. news this morning is that little noah was born 4 weeks early (don't freak out lara), weighs in at 7lbs 3oz and 20", and is doing well, along with his mama. while i'm a little annoyed that they stole one of my names :D i couldn't be more excited for corey and jill! as a sidenote, corey's response when i gave him a hard time about the name was 'first come, first served'. :)

good news item #2: after much persuasion, cajoling, brow beating and begging (okay, maybe that's a tad dramatic) my family has decided/agreed/succumbed to having christmas '09 in california. i can't necessarily explain why it is that i'm sooo excited about this, except that i can't wait to show them the place i live and have come (quickly) to love. that and hanging out with kendyl at disneyland, of course! already i'm trying to decide what my favorite favorite california things are, and it's tough whittling it down. it's definitely a break in tradition, but i think and hope it will be a fantastic experience for everyone!

good news item #3: i am finally done with t-mobile. the phone company, not the blog title. i switched to them a year ago thinking it would save me money. yeah, not so much. not only has it not saved me money, but some date entry punk inputted a completely different social security number than my actual one when my account was set up. so i have spend hours upon hours both in the store on the phone trying to make the correction so that i could actually 'manage' my account. the only thing i have been able to do is pay my bill (shocker), but i haven't been able to make any changes to my account (which would have helped with the whole money thing). i finally was able to get it fixed yesterday when i told them that whoever's ssn it REALLY was, was going to be pretty ticked when their credit rating got screwed up by an account they never had. somehow magically, it was all fixable after that. and since my contract is up, and the ssn corrected, i was able to get out. so for my t-mobile friends (all two of you) no more mobile to mobile...sorry. to my att family and friends, i'm here, call me ;)

good news item #4: i am loving loving loving tamara's little 'project blog'. tam and i go way back now (see, i even call her 'tam'), although we've still never met. i am constantly amazed at her eloquence and perspective, but most recently i am completely entertained and grateful for the reminder that single ain't so bad--especially when you take yourself out of the dating pressure cooker once in awhile, and open yourself up to new experiences people. her 'project' was to take on 31 dates in 31 days, to commemorate her recent birthday and try something new. she's blogging her dates here, and you should check it out! she's well underway, but it's not too late to join the bandwagon - you won't regret it.

good news item #5: i'm grateful for the things i done. you can no longer go up or inside kukulcan's temple at chichen itza (stupid vandals). you can no longer visit the statue of liberty's crown (stupid terrorism) and you can no longer snowmobile in yellowstone (stupid nature. um. well, not stupid nature, but you know what i mean). all things i've done that people can't DO anymore. i'm grateful for a family who loves to explore and experience and for the memories these have left behind.

Friday, January 23, 2009

what i missed



once you hit about 2:24, in the middle of the screen behind the piano player, there is a bearded man, who after taking a photo walks away. yeah. that's my dad. and for the record. i. was. in. orlando. but i'm not bitter.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

bicoastal rambling

one of my favorite things about growing up in the dc metro was its diversity. it always seemed to me the most perfectly positioned place to experience history, art, music, and the dichotomy that is the great outdoors. free museums were common and easily accessible to a teenager via metro. beaches and mountains made for great day or weekend trips. good food was always in abundance, and ethnicity had no bearing in my life. it did not impact who my friends were or how i treated or was treated by other people. i will always feel blessed to have been surrounded by those realities in my formative years.


i have come to learn that california is equally diverse. but though it shares some commonalities with my eastern home (beaches, mountains, good food, etc.), it is vastly different. for one thing, it's a really big state. really big. which means the 'to do list' is much larger than any of my previous homes (va, nc, ut). sometimes, it's a little daunting. to check off many of the things on that list, a weekend is a requirement, not an 'option.' fortunately however, there is enough close (or relatively close) at hand to keep me entertained and exploring while i plan those weekend trips in the un/forseeable future.


i've had the opportunity to visit santa barbara several times over the last couple of years, and i'd have to say that it's become one of my favorite places (although learning that there is no target or best buy has put a slight damper on my affection for it). :D last weekend jesse and i decided to take another shot at butterflies-- particularly since i was armed with a longer zoom lens (thanks to my parents christmas generosity). you may remember that back in november we visited what i now know to be the coronado butterfly reserve. each year up to 100 million monarch butterflies migrate to california and mexico. they are habitual, returning each year (or the ancestors of the previous generation, rather) to the same locales. the result is that in each of these locations an unknown (to me) quantity (a really lot lot lot) settle in for the winter.


in november it was obvious that the migration was just beginning. though at that time, it was still the largest collection of butterflies i've ever seen in one place, this weekend was so far and above what i could have ever imagined. numbers aside, i was surprised and pleased that the butterflies were so active. the late morning sun seemed to be a draw and many of the monarchs were flying relatively low to the ground. the result was an absolutely magical experience, and of course, a phenomenal photo opp. i don't have the words, or frankly the photos, to do it justice, but that won't stop me from posting my favorites anyway!


there are moments, memorable moments that stick with you. i've come to believe that it is in large part because those moments surprise you or exceed your expectations. my most memorable moments vary from family adventures like snowmobiling in yellowstone or making a movie together to world adventures like galloping an arabian stallion through the siq in petra or getting (okay CAUSING) a flat tire on an irish country road. for me, this was one of those moments. i don't know that anything like this exists anywhere but here, and that feeling of magic and wonder will not easily be forgotten.


(internal monologue: somehow this post is going from a weekend recap to the inauguration. weird.)

this'll teach him

the rest of the photos, including our stop at the santa barbara mission can be found here.



in a similar vein on a different body, one of the things i miss about dc is that feeling that you get every so often that you live at the center of the universe. the history of our country is constantly being written there, and next week will mark one its most significant chapters, no matter what the future holds. whichever side you fell on in our recent election, no one denies the importance of what is about to take place. and though i'm content to watch from my sunny southern california home (or technically from my orlando florida tradeshow), i am both sad and envious that my immediate family will all be reunited, along with some extended family additions to experience this memorable moment together.

my experience will be different. i will be watching it on my dvr, probably a week after the fact, once i've returned home from florida, and my biggest event of the year. despite the self-pity, and since i probably won't blog again beforehand, let me say to all my family and friends who plan to participate: be safe (seriously) and have patience. be grateful and humble. be a witness, but be MORE than a witness: record your experience. blog it, email it, tell it, whatever, so that those of us who are unable to share your front row seat, can still benefit from your experience. and most importantly, have fun without me, ya bums. :D