one of the things i love about traveling is the opportunity to reconnect with old friends.
my recent trip to ft. worth afforded two such opportunities, and though i was extremely uncomfortable in my new brace, it helped to have something extra special to look forward to.
extra special #1 was a late night dinner with anne and brian, who stuck around long enough to share a meal with me at ihop (at 11pm) before making the very long drive back to their home in houston. i was too busy stuffing my face with bacon, eggs, crepes, and a chicken fajita (no 'sharing' there - i was STARVING) to take a photo. and truly, as it had been a long day for all of us, i'm pretty sure i wouldn't have posted it anyway. just take my word for it, we met, we ate, we conquered.
extra special #2 arose when a long-time-ago friend saw that i would be in dallas for a few days on my facebook page (have i mentioned how great i think facebook is?). the last time i saw him was when he was starring in, and i assistant directing, a production of 'west side story' for the west valley (utah) community theater, some 13 years ago. he also lives in houston and is a pilot for a small airline, but though we've attempted before, our travels never land us in the same cities. until now.
turns out we'd be overlapping for a full 24 hours in the dallas area, so of course, i invited him to join me in checking off another diners, drive-ins, and dives restaurants.
i picked him up at his hotel and we headed to avila's, a mexican restaurant. i warned him that i never quite knew what i was going to get , a diner, a drive-in, or a dive. and after passing it three times before finding it, it's safe to say, it fell in the 'dive' category. i had also informed him that i hadn't had a bad meal yet, and fortunately, this place would NOT be the exception. that was some delicious mexican eats, and the queso alone is worth the stop.
the company didn't hurt, and we fell right back into our old groove catching up on the last decade+ of each other's lives before calling it a night.
i'll also mention briefly, that i checked one other ddd location off the menu - chef point cafe. it was a good meal, but not a standout. what this place really has going for it is a unique ambiance and HUGE portions. if you're REALLY hungry, it's not a bad choice.
i was happy to get home after a successful event, and even happier that my travel is almost nonexistent for the next three months. with only a few small events left for the rest of the year, and most of them local, i'm so excited i can deal with my newly awkward extremity on my own turf!
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Monday, October 11, 2010
kneegate: the trilogy (and my trip to florida)
first - an administrative note. click on the post title to see the trip photo album
my trip to florida began with all the makings of a fantastic experience, and before it's disastrous ending, it was just that.
it started even before the trip did, when a guy i knew in high school saw on my facebook page that i'd be heading to boca raton and asked where i'd be staying. when i told him, in that small world kind of way, it turned out that he worked at the property, and offered to attempt an upgrade for me.
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| superfly car for superfly chicks |
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| the boca raton resort |
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| the view from my suite |
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| melissa and i IN the everglades. and for the record, she's 5'4", i'm 5'9" |
the fun was just getting started though, and after melissa and i got the booth setup taken care of, we had some time to kill. so we decided to head south so that i could check the everglades national park off my parks passport list. but, we weren't content to settle for your 'standard' park experience, so we opted instead for an air boat tour. having had such a great time on our new orleans air boat, we were both pretty excited. and it was....different. it was worth every penny of the $22, but it wasn't as intense as the new orleans one (which was closer to $100). in the end we were glad we did it - the everglades is such an unusual place - but if you're ever in that area an considering an airboat tour, we'll talk, so you can go in with the right expectations.
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| a new stamp for the passport |
we made it back from the day's adventure in time for lunch. some of you may be familiar with the original serendipity in new york, originators of the frozen hot chocolate, and i was thrilled to learn that there was a serendipity at the hotel. in addition to my lunch, i enjoyed the peanut butter version of the yummy dessert.
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| peanut butter and the original |
then it was time for work, and we finished out the night at a random chinese place, where melissa tried frog legs for the first time.
ewww.
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| me, melissa, and the atlantic. |
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| having a burger at a raw bar |
and it was shortly thereafter that disaster struck.
we stopped for gas on the way to the airport. there were tropical storm warnings, heavy rain, and i was wearing flip flops. i still don't know exactly what happened, but as i was crossing the parking lot, my left knee/leg, 3 weeks post surgery, suddenly moved in a direction that it was not meant to move, and i went down. hard.
i caused a pretty good scene as i lay there in my very own parking spot with a sweater covering my face, as it had been protecting my head from the rain when i went down. and i stayed down for a few minutes, before i could attempt any movement. melissa brought the car to me, and we sat in the parking lot for about a half hour while i decided whether or not i was going to the emergency room.
ultimately, i decided no. while in a lot of pain, i really didn't like the idea of testing out the medical facilities in a completely unfamiliar place. so we headed to the airport, i dropped melissa off, and made the drive back to the hotel, where i spent the rest of the evening icing and elevating.
the next morning, i was in pain, but i could walk. i was dragging my bag to the car, and it happened again. same thing. at least it felt like the same thing, and it didn't feel good. this time it was the unsuspecting valets who got to watch me go down and wait while i determined whether or not i could breathe, let alone move my leg.
i just kept thinking to myself 'i want to go home. i want to go home.' i didn't know exactly how that was going to happen, but i was determined to try. so i tried, and succeeded. and it was by far the most miserable day of my life.
when i got to the rental car agency, the 'drop off' guy could see how much pain i was in and told me to get back in the car. he drove me over to the terminal so that i wouldn't have to take the shuttle (thank you random rental car guy!) and, once i got there, i found myself in a wheelchair, where i would remain for the rest of the day, when i wasn't actually on a plane.
to give you some perspective, in the 6 week process of tearing my meniscus through having the surgery, i took a total of roughly 20 vicodin pills. but by noon that day, i had taken 4. when i arrived at orange county, my sweet cousin was there to pick me up and take me to my car in the longterm lot. and when i eventually made it home, it was the first time, since this whole thing began in july, that i was forced to use crutches.
based on the location of the sharpest pains, and my previous experience, i had a sneaking suspicion that it was my mcl --another ligament i had torn some 14 odd years ago. and after a visit to the ortho, another set of mris, and another visit to the ortho, i learned that i had a bruised bone, and that i that i had indeed torn my mcl. i had perhaps, been overly optimistic in hoping that it was only a sprain, and while i am very very grateful that it won't require an additional surgery, i was not expecting them to put a brace on my leg (from crotch to calf) and tell me that i needed to wear it for six weeks, and that i could only take it off to shower.
it's been on for three days now, and i am exhausted. my sleep is extremely fitful and walking takes twice as much energy as it normally would. i'm currently in texas, and since i couldn't find a cost effective scooter rental place, i rented a car instead (it was cheaper), and i've been driving it back and forth the 2 1/2 blocks to the convention center. seriously.
the thing is. i'm kind of a trooper. i'm what you call a 'tough cookie' when it comes to bodily harm. i tend towards optimism and a 'what can you do but laugh about it?' attitude, and this is going to be a challenge. but maybe that's the point. maybe there's a lesson to be learned or a perspective to be gained that requires this challenge. maybe i missed it the first time, or maybe it's meant to serve an entirely different teaching purpose. here's hoping that in the next 6 weeks i figure out what that is!
Saturday, October 02, 2010
ft. worth
i find it interesting that with as many times as i've been to dallas over the years, i've never really spent any time in ft. worth. i've always lumped the sister cities together, and i'm afraid, in doing so i have done ft. worth a disservice.
don't get me wrong, i've always liked dallas. but what i didn't realize is that ft. worth has a very distinctive personality, and one i was glad to experience.
this was my first post-surgery trip, and for the most part, i was feelin' pretty good. i may or may not have asked my co-worker to drive me and my boxes the three blocks to the convention center so i wouldn't have to drag them on a cart, and i'm not working the booth just yet, but in general, i was doing alright.
the event was at the convention center, and we stayed at the 'historic' ft. worth hilton. it's a registered national historic site, largely because jfk gave his last address and spent his last night there. definitely cool, but not the highlight of the trip.
we didn't have much playtime on this one, particularly since i was leaving early to head straight to another event, but alana, shannon, and i decided to make the most of what we had, and my last night in ft. worth was a fun-filled one.
the girls were up for joining me on my diners, drive-ins, and dives quest, and the restaurant on the agenda was the twisted root burger company. anyone who has traveled with me will know that i love a good burger. it's my comfort food when i'm on the road, so imagine how excited i was that there was a burger joint on the list!
twisted root is a super casual half bar, half order at the window, style restaurant. we placed our orders, and instead of giving our names, we were GIVEN names. alana was erykah badu, shannon was vanna white, i was eva longoria, and we were all 'sweethearts' as far as the cute cashier was concerned.
as you might imagine, it made for some good jokes and good laughs as each order came up and we heard some of the other names that had been assigned. while we waited for ours to be called, we decided to try the twisted rootbeer flavor of the day, which was strawberry. and for the record, strawberry + root beer = unexpectedly tasty!
our burgers came up and boy were they yummy. i have to say that the fries and the fried pickles made for perfect complements, but the atmosphere may have been the best part of all. for most of my first year at the company, every conference consisted of meals at 'nice' places. while i can appreciate a 'nice' place as much as the next guy, and maybe more than most, if i have the choice, i'd rather be in jeans, in a dive, enjoying a cheap burger, and this place was right up my alley.
after dinner we made our way to shannon's house, where i finally got to meet her boyfriend felipe. having heard so much about him, i was excited to finally put the face to the name, in person. i was also excited to tour shannon's house, since it was a fairly recent acquisition, and i've been hearing all about the updates and upgrades she's been making. it did not disappoint, and i appreciated the opportunity to go a little deeper with this co-worker who's becoming a friend.
after checking out the house, the four of us headed to the stockyards, and eventally landed at billy bob's. some of you may remember that i visited billy bob's when ann and brian came to visit me in dallas earlier this year. last time i was there, though, rick springfield was the main attraction, and the crowd demographics were representative of that. this time is was hats and boots for miles, and i couldn't get enough. dancing was out of the question for me, but i sure enjoyed watching!
so did alana, who's san francisco sensibilities had never been exposed to anything like it before. we were enjoying ourselves so much, that we didn't realize how late it was until we closed the place down.
fortunately for me, i could sleep in the following morning before making my way to boca raton, fl for another event. the morning was a lazy one, and i said my farewell to ft. worth knowing i would be back, in the same hotel, at the same convention center, in less than a month. how's that for irony?
don't get me wrong, i've always liked dallas. but what i didn't realize is that ft. worth has a very distinctive personality, and one i was glad to experience.
this was my first post-surgery trip, and for the most part, i was feelin' pretty good. i may or may not have asked my co-worker to drive me and my boxes the three blocks to the convention center so i wouldn't have to drag them on a cart, and i'm not working the booth just yet, but in general, i was doing alright.
the event was at the convention center, and we stayed at the 'historic' ft. worth hilton. it's a registered national historic site, largely because jfk gave his last address and spent his last night there. definitely cool, but not the highlight of the trip.
the girls were up for joining me on my diners, drive-ins, and dives quest, and the restaurant on the agenda was the twisted root burger company. anyone who has traveled with me will know that i love a good burger. it's my comfort food when i'm on the road, so imagine how excited i was that there was a burger joint on the list!
twisted root is a super casual half bar, half order at the window, style restaurant. we placed our orders, and instead of giving our names, we were GIVEN names. alana was erykah badu, shannon was vanna white, i was eva longoria, and we were all 'sweethearts' as far as the cute cashier was concerned.
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erykah badu, eva longoria, & vanna white |
our burgers came up and boy were they yummy. i have to say that the fries and the fried pickles made for perfect complements, but the atmosphere may have been the best part of all. for most of my first year at the company, every conference consisted of meals at 'nice' places. while i can appreciate a 'nice' place as much as the next guy, and maybe more than most, if i have the choice, i'd rather be in jeans, in a dive, enjoying a cheap burger, and this place was right up my alley.
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| he may not smile in photos but he smiles a lot in 'real life' |
after checking out the house, the four of us headed to the stockyards, and eventally landed at billy bob's. some of you may remember that i visited billy bob's when ann and brian came to visit me in dallas earlier this year. last time i was there, though, rick springfield was the main attraction, and the crowd demographics were representative of that. this time is was hats and boots for miles, and i couldn't get enough. dancing was out of the question for me, but i sure enjoyed watching!
so did alana, who's san francisco sensibilities had never been exposed to anything like it before. we were enjoying ourselves so much, that we didn't realize how late it was until we closed the place down.
fortunately for me, i could sleep in the following morning before making my way to boca raton, fl for another event. the morning was a lazy one, and i said my farewell to ft. worth knowing i would be back, in the same hotel, at the same convention center, in less than a month. how's that for irony?
Thursday, September 23, 2010
want to know a secret?
k, don't tell anyone, but i am a really good restaurant picker. i mean REALLY good.
picking a restaurant is not just about surfing yelp, finding a five-star review, and making the reservation. oh no, it's so much more than that.
it's about knowing the composite personality of your group, and understanding that any one person can completely change that dynamic. it's about determining the mood and the tastes of that group and identifying the middle ground. it's about finding the right balance of ambiance and activity and comfortable chairs. it's about making that choice, in my case very often, without ever having stepped foot inside the restaurant before.
all this to say that tonight was another success story, and if you're ever in ft. worth, make sure you check out h3 ranch at the stockyards.
picking a restaurant is not just about surfing yelp, finding a five-star review, and making the reservation. oh no, it's so much more than that.
it's about knowing the composite personality of your group, and understanding that any one person can completely change that dynamic. it's about determining the mood and the tastes of that group and identifying the middle ground. it's about finding the right balance of ambiance and activity and comfortable chairs. it's about making that choice, in my case very often, without ever having stepped foot inside the restaurant before.
all this to say that tonight was another success story, and if you're ever in ft. worth, make sure you check out h3 ranch at the stockyards.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
on the road again
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