Wednesday, September 16, 2009

a little giggle, a big guffaw

i don't usually comment on the state of being single and over 30 in the mormon world (at least not TOO often), but i got a good laugh today and felt compelled to share.  for those of you outside my faith, the single adult program consists of single mormons, age 31 to dead.  which is why those of us on the lower end of that range, who also happen to live in an area where there is a 'mid-singles' program (roughly 31 - 45), are very grateful.
 
there is an upcoming single adult conference about an hour from where i live, and the following workshops are being offered:
 
1. Scam Awareness
2. Dealing With Adversity
3. Understanding Assisted living
4. Storing Food For One
5. Spiritual Video Presentation
6. Finance and Credit
 
now, does one of these jump out at you, because #3 almost made me choke on my lunch!  sadly, i don't think the intention of this workshop is 'understanding assisted living for your elderly parents.'

Wednesday, September 09, 2009

thursday thanks

it's thursday here in chicago and i've got a couple of things to be really grateful about.

the first is that my entire immediate family will be coming to california for christmas! i'm excited to take kendyl (who just started kindergarten) to disneyland, excited for our side trip to yosemite, and excited that they will all get to see what my life has been like for the last two (in october) years. it's going to be a non-traditional christmas, but i am sooo excited, and so thankful that they are willing to make the financial sacrifices to make it happen.

the second is that i scored, and i still don't know how, amazing tickets for an insanely low amount of frequent flyer miles to visit germany in november. seriously - those of you who are familiar with frequent flyer miles will know that 40k miles, roundtrip, is both a thing of beauty and a thing of legend, never before proven. for perspective's sake (and i actually feel really bad about this), it took 60k miles each ticket for my family members to come out to ca in december.

i'll be spending a few days with my friend arika in her new home in germany, visiting places like this:

neuschwanstein castle - the inspiration for disneyland's sleeping beauty castle

as an added bonus, i'll be doing a three day side trip to venice, seeing places like this:

the grand canal

and, if all goes according to plan, deb will be meeting me in venice for the weekend! she and i have been attempting an italy trip now for about five years, so this will be a perfect way to break the curse and enjoy italy together for the first, but not the last, time.

i'm so thankful to have so much to look forward to!

Thursday, September 03, 2009

gratuitous photo posting

last week, or the week before (they all blend together), i picked up nic and her new cruiser to initiate maggie (the name of her new bike) by giving her her first beach ride.

since my ward was also conveniently hosting a beach party, we stopped by for some roasted corn and other goodies before giving the girls a ride.

mostly i'm posting this pic because nic and i agreed that we both look pretty darn good (despite my windblown hair), and wow do my legs look skinny!

kansas city: the church history tour

it's fair to say that i wasn't quite 'on' this trip. now that i've been back for two days and have spent both of them with a miserable cough, runny nose, and headache, i have a better understanding as to why--my body was getting ready to break down. i should be grateful it held off so long, but as i'm back on a plane on monday, all i can think about is how poor the timing is. oh well.

the exhibit setup was rougher than usual. the exhibit hall doesn't usually get air until the show starts, which is sometimes not an issue, and other times downright awful. i do thank my lucky stars that kc was experiencing unusually cool weather while there, but even in the high 70's with the high humidity that rain and thunderstorms brought, it was pretty uncomfortable. both myself and the install team were dripping with sweat. and that was how i spent my birthday:)

the install was supposed to finish up on thursday, but by day's end, there was still a few hours of work to be done. and 'a few hours' is not insignificant when it comes to an install. when you are contracted to pay for 6-8 hours of labor, that's pretty much what it should take. in this case, there was no one reason for the extra time, and i can't even entirely pinpoint it. maybe we were all moving slow in the humidity. there were certainly enough people - it just seemed to take forever.

that was compounded by learning on friday morning that my shipment of materials from our distribution center had been screwed up, and would not arrive until monday - the last day of the show. there was a lot of scrambling to try and figure out how to remedy the situation, and by early friday afternoon, with the booth finally set up, i was in desperate need of a brain break.

in a normal situation, that would have meant sleeping for hours in my hotel room, but on thursday evening, dad had pointed out that i was close to a lot of church history sites, so i decided to take advantage of having a rental car.


the first stop on the list was adam-ondi-ahman.


for those 5 of you readers who are not lds, you can google this or any of the places i'm going to mention, but i'm going to keep it pretty high level.

adam-ondi-ahman is, largely, a giant parcel of land. there isn't much to see other than grass and trees, but there was definitely a special feeling about the place. i must have hit this (and all the other sites) in an off time, because i was the sole visitor. the solitude, the quiet, and the spirit of the place provided an ideal setting for some reflection and introspection.


from adam-ondi-ahman, it was on to haun's mill, the site of the 1838 massacre. there is a good explanation of the events at huan's mill found here. and again, there isn't much to see. the haun's mill site is off the beaten path - literally. in doing my research, i couldn't find an actual address to plug in to the gps - just coordinates. those coordinates took me about 5 miles on a one way dirt and gravel road.

the former rlds church, now the community of christ, has placed a marker there, but truth be told, i never found it. instead, i found a field. the original memorial millstone now sits in breckenridge, mo, so there is no evidence of what took place here. only the knowing of it, which creates a profound reverence for the lives lost.

from haun's mill, it was on to far west:


In August 1836, W. W. Phelps and John, presidents of the Latter Day Saint Church, selected 1 square mile of land overlooking the rolling native prairie, as the site for a new town to be called Far West. Settlement of this and neighboring lands along Shoal Creek began immediately. Far West became the county seat of Caldwell County, a region set apart by the State especially for the Mormons. In Far West the Saints built some two hundred homes, several dry goods stores and groceries, half a dozen black smith shop, two hotels and a printing office. The city quickly expanded to four miles square, eventually becoming the home of as many as 5,000 inhabitants. Residents excavated and laid foundation stones for a temple for worship on the Public Square. They also erected a large school building on the Square for use as a courthouse, town hall and temporary church. By the fall of 1838, Far West was the hub of community activity extending throughout Caldwell- encompassing nearly 2,000 farms comprised of approximately 250,000 acres purchased from the Federal Government.


In October 1838 a Missouri army surrounded Far West. At the end of three days, the Prophet Joseph Smith and other Church leaders agreed to meet with militia leaders outside the city. However, instead of conducting talks, the militia leaders arrested and sentenced Joseph and the others to death by a firing squad. Brigadier General Alexander Doniphan refused the order, stating that it was illegal. Although their lives were saved at this time, Joseph and the other leaders were unjustly incarcerated for five months, suffering horrible conditions.


While the Church leaders were in jail, mobs continued to harass the Saints, eventually driving them out of the state despite an early winter. Church leaders Brigham Young, Heber C. Kimball, and John Taylor led 5,000 suffering Saints across Missouri into Illinois.

There were good times at Far West as well. While there, Joseph Smith received divine communications, recorded in Doctrine and Covenants section 115, that revealed that the Church's name should be The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Also revealed was the system for tithing Church members and the instruction that a temple should be built at Far West.

from far west it was on to liberty jail. a visitors center has been built around the jail, and the theme for the day - solitude- continued...at least initially. the missionaries gave an an overview of the history, at which point, we were joined by a road-tripping couple on their way home.


after the introduction, we were taken in to the main room, where the foundations of the jail and the recreated upper and lower rooms are. joseph smith was held in this jail for five months before being allowed to escape:

Incarcerated in Liberty Jail with Joseph Smith were other Church leaders: Hyrum Smith, Sidney Rigdon, Lyman Wight, Alexander McRae, and Caleb Baldwin. During the winter months in which they were held in the basement jail, they suffered from intense cold and exposure to the elements because of the small slits in the walls that served as windows. The men slept on dirty straw and suffered poisoning attempts and insults. However, Joseph's biggest grievance was not his own condition of imprisonment but the knowledge that the members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints were suffering untold anguish that he could not prevent.


liberty jail is often referred to as the 'prison-temple', as joseph smith had much time for meditation, reflection, and prayer. this ultimately resulted in sections 121 & 122 of the d&c. you can most definitely still feel a spirit in this place. and it was enhanced by the sister missionary's closing on her presentation, in which, she sang the hymn 'abide with me' in a clear and beautiful voice. it was a perfect example of how music can magnify the spirit. and a perfect finish to the day.


a couple days later, i hit the last stop on the church history tour, independence, mo. currently, there is no temple in independence, though the site was dedicated in 1831 by joseph smith. there is, however, a visitor center where you can learn more about the history of the churh in the area and that of the temple site itself. the visitors center currently has an exhibit on display called 'reflections of christ'. there are some powerful an interesting pieces on display. this was one of my favorites:


we so often see christ portrayed seriously and i love the expression on his face here. i didn't know the title of the piece at the time, but was struck by the joy and love evident on his face. the photograph, fittingly enough, is titled 'joy.'

there were a few other highlights as well, one of the 10 virgins, one of jesus walking on water. all in all, a truly beautiful, truly inspirational exhibit.

i grew up visiting places like palmyra and nauvoo - heck, that's what we did for youth conferences! maybe as a result of having such easy access to those places, i hadn't previously given much thought to visiting others. with my close proximity though, i couldn't miss these missouri sites, and there is something about just being there and seeing it firsthand. all those sunday school lessons and scriptures and stories take on a whole new light when you are standing in those holy places.


Wednesday, September 02, 2009

birthday celebrations

it's official, i'm 33. as lara put it once 'i'm the same age jesus was when he died.' though i haven't accomplished a fraction of what he did, i'm excited to be an odd age again. there are a few who know about my weird quirk with numbers, but for those of you who don't, i HATE even numbers. there is no rhyme or reason, i just don't like them, so i'm pretty psyched to have made it through 32, and planning on enjoying 33!

since i was going to be in kansas city for work on my birthday, this year's celebrations were a bit different than previous years. when my thoughtful roommate asked me how i wanted to celebrate, i told her i didn't want to think about it until after my trip. she was not content to let it go though, and on the night before my departure, surprised me with a wonderful homemade ice cream cake!


it was both a delicious and much appreciated gesture. especially since i had unintentionally thwarted two previous attempts at the surprise. oops!

the celebrations continued in kansas city when i joined my colleague chris and colleague/friend melissa for a yummy meal. melissa was a late addition and a much appreciated one! i wasn't sure that i'd actually get to spend time with her on this trip, as she had other responsibilities to attend to. she recaps the evening here, but between the delicious stuffed chicken, the chocolate cake (of course), and the quality conversation, it was a great way to usher in 33!

the following night, two of my co-workers (the only two who had arrived in kc) took me to a kansas city institution - the savoy grill. the savoy is on the national register of historic places, and has been left largely in it's original condition. unfortunately, i wasn't super-impressed with the food, but linda and julie made for great dinner companions, and i was very appreciative of their efforts and desire to help me celebrate.